I always try to trust what others tell me, at times this has come to bite me in the back. I give the benefit of the doubt and make excuses for others because I want to believe that they will do what they say or follow through with there promises. How many times do I have to this happen; well at least once or twice a day. You would think that I would learn right?
When you tell someone something and follow through it builds trust and makes them believe in your word; when you don't it makes one feel used, disappointed and confused.
I am sorry for the times that I may have failed to follow through and ask for forgiveness for my shortcomings.
As for those that have unknowingly disappointed me or lied to me; I forgive you, but please think about what you have said or not done so you don't do it again. For those of you that purposely lied to me and failed to follow through shame on You!!!! Can you really live with yourselves knowing what you are doing to others? I will forgive but not Forget!!!
TRUST QUOTES:
~ It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. ~ Anonymous
~ The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it's the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him with his friend. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
~ The glue that holds all relationships together - including the relationship between; the leader and the led is trust, and trust is based on integrity. ~ Brian Tracey
~ Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. ~Benjamin Spock
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Friday, July 17, 2009
The Fact's of Life
I have worked in the field of Domestic Violence for almost two decades now and strangely enough I still take great satisfaction and pride in helping others clear the aftermath of destruction that reaps havoc in their lives from their so called loved ones. Abuse is reflected and conveyed in many forms; the physical aspect is usually what one thinks of when they hear the word abuse or domestic violence but there is so many other ways to obtain Power and Control over another. The way that an abuser usually controls their victims is to beat them down emotionally.
Emotional abuse includes verbal abuse such as yelling, name-calling, blaming, and shaming. Isolation, intimidation, and controlling behavior also fall under emotional abuse. Additionally, abusers who use emotional or psychological abuse often throw in threats of physical violence. The scars of emotional abuse are very real, and they run deep. The longer you stay in an abusive relationship, the greater the toll on your self-esteem. You become depressed and anxious. You begin to doubt your ability to take care of yourself or wonder if the abuse is your fault.
Strange as it seems I tend to look at my own life with those lovely Pollyanna glasses. Maybe those glasses have slipped down my nose abit to allow me to see things as they really are. So as the old song goes......
Ya Take The good ya take the bad ya take em both and thare ya have The Facts of life, the facts of life. There's a time ya gotta go and show and grow And now ya know about the Facts of life the facts of life. When the world never seeeeeeemmmmmsssss to be liiiiiivveennnnn up to your Dreeeaammss and sudenly your findin out that the facts of life are all about YOU!! (UUUUHOOOOOOOOOHOOOOO)
Emotional abuse includes verbal abuse such as yelling, name-calling, blaming, and shaming. Isolation, intimidation, and controlling behavior also fall under emotional abuse. Additionally, abusers who use emotional or psychological abuse often throw in threats of physical violence. The scars of emotional abuse are very real, and they run deep. The longer you stay in an abusive relationship, the greater the toll on your self-esteem. You become depressed and anxious. You begin to doubt your ability to take care of yourself or wonder if the abuse is your fault.
Strange as it seems I tend to look at my own life with those lovely Pollyanna glasses. Maybe those glasses have slipped down my nose abit to allow me to see things as they really are. So as the old song goes......
Ya Take The good ya take the bad ya take em both and thare ya have The Facts of life, the facts of life. There's a time ya gotta go and show and grow And now ya know about the Facts of life the facts of life. When the world never seeeeeeemmmmmsssss to be liiiiiivveennnnn up to your Dreeeaammss and sudenly your findin out that the facts of life are all about YOU!! (UUUUHOOOOOOOOOHOOOOO)
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Take Lemonade
A fresh squeezed glass of lemonade on a hot sunny day; what could be more refreshing? I love the tart sweet taste as it touches my lips. For me the savory taste of the sour lemon is a great combination to the sugared water.
For some it seems that they much prefer their lemonade made with artifical sweetners and pretend lemons. Others perfer the real lemons taste with artifical sugar, while still others just like the good old mix.
Each to their own as some would say, I will take my lemonade the old fashioned way; familar and sweet.
For some it seems that they much prefer their lemonade made with artifical sweetners and pretend lemons. Others perfer the real lemons taste with artifical sugar, while still others just like the good old mix.
Each to their own as some would say, I will take my lemonade the old fashioned way; familar and sweet.
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Truth or Dare
When was the last time you played truth or dare? It was never one of my favorite childhood games. I much more preferred to play kick the can, tag, or cards like crazy eights, war or my most favorite time was playing pinochle with my gram on the front porch while she sat on the swing.
My children also liked playing games; learning to play little league baseball, yes I was that mom who was at every game to cheer him on, or at the soccer field watching and working the concession stand. Teaching them how to play cards, UNO was always a family fun night. At times not too much fun for some as life lessons to be taught; be a good looser when you looser and a nice winner when you win.
As I grow older I find the same type of joy when I get to play all sort of games with my grandchildren. They are always delighted and very eager to join me or should I say beat me in a game or two. Passing on to the next generation the love of the game.
Today, however it seems like that old game that I never enjoyed and refused to play came knocking at my door; Truth or Dare. Well, the truth is I love my entire family if you really want to know and the dare is don't judge a book by its cover you know not what you speak of. I will not play this game with you!
My children also liked playing games; learning to play little league baseball, yes I was that mom who was at every game to cheer him on, or at the soccer field watching and working the concession stand. Teaching them how to play cards, UNO was always a family fun night. At times not too much fun for some as life lessons to be taught; be a good looser when you looser and a nice winner when you win.
As I grow older I find the same type of joy when I get to play all sort of games with my grandchildren. They are always delighted and very eager to join me or should I say beat me in a game or two. Passing on to the next generation the love of the game.
Today, however it seems like that old game that I never enjoyed and refused to play came knocking at my door; Truth or Dare. Well, the truth is I love my entire family if you really want to know and the dare is don't judge a book by its cover you know not what you speak of. I will not play this game with you!
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Happy 4th
Splashes of sparklers
making figures eights
in tiny little hands
Skies lighting up with the splashes
of the rainbow; A big bang following
with all the ewws and ahhs
For me, I will celebrate with
children running and laughter abounding
as the fireworks are lit
and the roasting of hotdogs and smores
fills the air
Celebrating life in the fullest
with family and friends
Worry to pass
a celebration to begin!
making figures eights
in tiny little hands
Skies lighting up with the splashes
of the rainbow; A big bang following
with all the ewws and ahhs
For me, I will celebrate with
children running and laughter abounding
as the fireworks are lit
and the roasting of hotdogs and smores
fills the air
Celebrating life in the fullest
with family and friends
Worry to pass
a celebration to begin!
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